As important as the rules themselves is the way in which the rules are developed. Sure, you could just post a list of rules that you personally consider essential to running meetings effectively and efficiently. Then you could just enforce them as you enforce your organization’s policies.
But it’s better if the participants develop the ground rules themselves, because the rules will be specific to their group, because they’ll feel a sense of ownership, and because they’ll be more likely to follow the ground rules if they all agree on them.
The facilitator can start the discussion by just asking a question such as “What guidelines should we adopt so that our meetings make the most of what all of us have to offer?” or “What are some principles that we should all keep in mind during our meetings?”
The discussion that generates the meeting rules also serves another important purpose: it reveals values and emotions that can divide the participants or unite them. The way in which participants
develop their ground rules shows a lot about how they’ll work together.
If participants have trouble starting this discussion, the facilitator can suggest one or two topics for them to consider. He or she might also want to suggest more topics as the discussion wanes.
Once participants start making and discussing suggestions for rules, the facilitator should help them word their proposals and guide them through the decision process. The scribe records the ground rules on a flipchart or whiteboard.
After the meeting, the scribe transfers the ground rules to regular sheets of paper and/or another convenient medium. Then, you can bring the rules to every meeting, to review them for the group and/or display them during the meeting.
Groups typically adopt or at least consider ground rules covering the following issues:
• Attendance
• Promptness: procedure for dealing with latecomers—bring them up to speed? sanction?
• Participation
• Meeting role assignments
• Interruptions: pagers and cell phones?
• Respect
• Discussion process
• Confidentiality: how is it determined what discussions are confidential? What information or comments are not to leave the room?
• Assignments
• Method for evaluating meetings
• Chronic violations of rules
Sometimes groups decide on a penalty for breaking ground rules. For example, the group might decide that any participant who causes an unnecessary interruption must buy coffee, tea, and soft drinks for all of the others during the next break or for the next meeting. Or the group might decide that participants who arrive late are responsible for providing refreshments for the next meeting.
next meeting.
To the extent possible, the group members should be responsible for enforcing their ground rules. The facilitator should be sensitive and as ready to help them with this process as with any other. If somebody breaks a rule and it seems like a serious matter, the facilitator may scan the faces of the other members for any negative reactions and, with a facial expression or gesture, encourage them to react, just as he or she might encourage reactions to a contribution. At times, it may be necessary for him or her to intervene, if a violation of a rule seems serious and the other members of the group aren’t reacting to it. And sometimes members of the group may just let violations pass, if they’re not serious, but mention them when they evaluate the meeting.
Finally, the simpler the rules, the easier they are to remember and follow—and for you to review at the start of meetings, as necessary. Also, a group that gets bogged down in legalistic wrangling over rules is setting a dangerous pattern for discussing other matters. In addition, the more involved the discussion becomes, the easier for participants to obsess over rules and neglect the principles behind them—such as respect, collaboration, and efficiency.
The group is responsible for developing and adopting ground rules. In this process, as in all others during a meeting, the members of the group are all equals. The facilitator and the scribe are serving, not governing; they should act as peers. You cannot use your rank as manager to influence anybody;
you should act as a peer. Just trust that the participants will decide to modify the rules as they gain a little experience applying them. The ground rules are for the benefit of the group and the members are more likely to adhere to rules that they have generated.
Taken From : The Manager’s Guide to Effective Meetings